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by Marilyn French

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To jamie and rob. Contents. That was absurd, of course. Who waits for just one person anymore? Who ever had, outside of books?

To jamie and rob. Who waits for just one person anymore? Who ever had, outside of books? And the leaning back against a stranger-that was a relinquishment of control she could not even imagine feeling in life. Not ever, not even before. Before my feelings dried up, my vagina too. No gushes shot up her sides anymore, no thumping heart blinded her vision. After all those years of tumult, all that screwing, all that passionate conviction of love, degrees of love, kinds of love, subtle discrimination among loves. Now the word itself disgusted her.

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The Bleeding Heart book. The lyrics that mentioned French were: "I must have read a while, the latest one by Marilyn French or something in that style". French died from heart failure at age 79 on May 2, 2009 in Manhattan, New York City. She is survived by her son Robert and daughter Jamie.

The Bleeding Heart - Marilyn French. The cradle rocks, very gently, like the swaying of the train. We do not move ourselves, the motion moves us. The air around us moves, it is electric, vibrant, charged. Everything moves and we with it, accepting.

Marilyn Edwards married Robert M. French Jr. in. and the video clip for the song vaguely reflects the -a-train plot of The Bleeding Heart. in 1950 and supported him while he attended law school. The couple had two children. French also received a master's degree in English from Hofstra, in 1964 In her work, French asserted that women's oppression is an intrinsic part of the male-dominated global culture. Works by or about Marilyn French in libraries (WorldCat catalog).

From the bestselling author of The Women’s Room comes a resonant novel about love and marriage Dolores Durer, a divorced English professor and the mother of two adult children, has sworn off love after a series of disastrous affairs. Electronics executive Victor Morrissey is in England to open a branch office. He has four children and is unhappily married. From the moment they meet-on a train-their connection is instant and passionate. The two Americans abroad embark on an affair that will have consequences in both their lives.

Marilyn French was a novelist and feminist.

The US writer and academic Marilyn French, who has died aged 79, is best known for her debut novel, The .

The US writer and academic Marilyn French, who has died aged 79, is best known for her debut novel, The Women's Room. It was published in 1977, when she was almost 50, and captured the mood of the time, selling more than 20m worldwide. French went on to write more novels, including The Bleeding Heart (1980), and substantial non-fiction works on patriarchy and women's history. But none of her later books enjoyed the success of The Women's Room

The cover may have some limited signs of wear but the pages are clean, intact and the spine remains undamaged. This book has clearly been well maintained and looked after thus far.

by. French, Marilyn, 1929-2009. Books for People with Print Disabilities. New York : Ballantine. Internet Archive Books. Uploaded by AltheaB on January 25, 2010. SIMILAR ITEMS (based on metadata).

Comments: (7)

I thought it was very confusing. It took a long time to figure out who was who and what was going on.
Always loved the book but the Audible narrator is awful.
A fascinating and stimulating consideration of the dynamic of s man in deep connection to a woman and vice versa....... like the polarity of spinning magnets, simultaneously attracting and repulsing each other..... in an unbreakable bond .... and an idiosyncratic connection. Does sexual attraction overcome the tension created by the struggle for power and control? Thought provoking!
My favorite novel of all time written by a remarkable writer..I wish for a sequel or screenplay.
The book and the reception from the source was good.........little wordy for me at times........and wandering..........but thats my problem not the author who does what she does well................
The Bleeding Heart by Marilyn French is an Open Road Intergrated Media publication. I was provided a copy of this book by the publisher and Netgalley in conjunction with Retro Romance reading group in exchange for an honest review.
Dolores and Victor are two strangers on a train... Yes, that's how the book really starts out. They begin an affair that has a time frame attached to it. They will have a year together and then they will go about their lives as they had before the affair.
The relationship is the deepest one either of them have had in quite some time. Victor is married, but his marriage is one in name only. Dolores is divorced, but it's more complicated than that. Both of them have had affairs in the past, but none of them had much emotional depth. For Victor, Delores causes him to realize his failings in the past and examine his actions and the responsiblbity he is just now realizing he must own up to. For Delores, this is the first time she has dealt with the pain and disillusionment and heartache she has endured over the years since her marriage disolved. Delores is not the hearts and flowers type for sure. She is plagued by dark thoughts, nightmares, and fears.
As the story of their lives unfold we see the pain men have caused Delores and we understand why she feels the way she does. We learn that Victor was and may be still not such great guy. Through Delores he begins to view things from a woman's perpective, something he has never really contemplated too much in the past. As each one pours out their painful stories to the other it becomes clear that neither of them will ever be able to have the type of romantic relationship we thing of traditionally, either with each other or with someone else. They are two people who could really make a relationship work though if they were so inclined. But, while Victor would not mind things continuing, Delores is much more realistic and may decide this life isn't the one she really wants.
Written at a time when women were just beginning to step out the traditional roles created for them, this book examines the true nature of those roles. Men went about their lives after marriage much the same way they did before they married. They had jobs and hobbies and friends a life outside of the family. They came home and there was a hot meal on the table , the house clean, the children taken care of, the laundry done, and then they expected their wives to perform in the bedroom without giving a single thought as to what life might be like for them. Victor was no exception to that rule and while he may have won the battle of wills against his wife, the victory was a hallow and tragic one.
For Delores, her marriage was a nightmare. She was emotionally rung out from it and as bad as the marriage was, the divorce was worse. She also suffered other more horrible tragedies in her life as well and so her attitude about marriage and love are not healthy. Delores is not always mentally or emotionally healthy. Victor has opened up the pain she went through and her subconsious mind tries to deal with the pain and fear she has kept buried for so long.
While Victor and Delores had some good times, and the relationship helped Delores to heal, and opened Victor's eyes to some things, and the book was very absorbing and well written, it was also really depressing. There was so much heavy drama and most of if was so dark and heartbreaking with no clear path to future peace or contentment or even a little happiness. I began to wish the end would come and that's never a good sign. Usually, I hate it when a book has to end. While I understand what the author's intent was and admire the sentiment, it was just too oppressive to really be enjoyed. The ending did nothing to redeem that feeling. It was an interesting portrait of this period of transition in the lives of women the dawning of a more enlightened way of thinking for men. However, it was spread on too thick and became more of an essay on feminism, which was the part of the author's intent, but it just took over the whole story and I began to grow weary of it. I honestly can't decide on how I want to rate this one. I'm going to go with a C, a nice middle of the road rating although I didn't exactly enjoy the book I can't fault the writing or the author's well meaning attempt to showcase the misery men have put women through, often without really realizing it fully. So, lets go with the C grade or 3 stars.
My name is Collette, I buy books on Amazon,

and I love most of what Marilyn French has written.

It is true that Ms. French uses this story, at least in part, as a vehicle to express intelligent feminist concepts -- and I applaud her for doing so.

Throughout the book, the heroine "comes clean" with Victor. She works to set to rights a social system of rampant sexism, inequality, and discrimination against women. This is EXACTLY the kind of dialogue women and men NEED to have -- inequality between men and women is a horrible thing and it DOESN'T WORK -- in any way, shape, or form -- the whole world over. I love Delores's confrontations with Victor -- right on! All the more power to her! (However, with Victor, I think Delores is "beating her head against a brick wall." She is wasting her precious energy trying to get a very important message through to a fairly dense, disinterested guy. I think men should be free to make their own choices as to whether they want to continue to be sexist or work to unlearn sexism. Nobody can "force" a man to think and to care. So -- why waste time? "Take the best and leave the rest." Find a man who is aware and compassionate to begin with, regarding equality between men and women. More on this in a bit.)

I gave the book four stars instead of five because I didn't care for the ending -- I was hoping she'd leave Victor, as this seems to be a dead-end type relationship -- as in, "stuck," where no real growth is possible.

From what I gather, Delores's relationship with Victor will undoubtedly drag on and on. She will "forgive" him everything, for "love." Delores decides to "settle" for Victor, even though this can only negatively impact her self-respect and self-esteem. However -- "love" is poor compensation for the loss of self-respect and personal integrity that "selling out" entails. (Remember, Women -- you only get what you settle for. If you settle for inequality, for a relationship in which you are anything less than fully equal and equally respected, then you are accountable to yourself for having "settled." There ARE some wonderful men out there -- they may be far and few between, in that there may be relatively few men that are truly concerned about sexism and what John Stoltenberg calls "gender justice," but I myself would rather live alone for the rest of my life than settle for anything less. At least I will HAVE MYSELF. I am as good as any man -- as a human being, I am of equal value, entitled to the same degree of dignity and respect and all good things. Therefore, I won't put up with SEXISM in a personal relationship with a man, NOT ONE IOTA. I will always express how I feel about it, if my male partner "slips," whether intentional on his part or not. If other women want to "eat sh-- with a smile," that's their problem. But I WILL NOT. And I'm not saying I believe in name-calling, vicious attacks, and character defamation -- much of male sexism in not even conscious, but is simply due to HIS programming from birth on. Rather, it's a gradual process of consciousness-raising, in helping a man see the ways in which his programming isn't conducive to healthy relationships with women. It's a matter of men gradually de-programming a lifetime's worth of stereotypical messages about women. However, I am TIRED -- the next man I meet will have to be "on the ball," already aware of the injustice and true cost of sexism with regards to the health and harmony of male-female relationships. He will have to have "done his own homework," in this regard -- I can't "take any more men on," as Dolores does with Victor. He will have to be on the right side of things to begin with, or it won't fly. He necessarily will have had, at some point, to begin taking a hand in his own education and reprogramming...and yes, there are some very good men out there that have done these things. I have every faith that most men are decent people, capable of caring and learning. However -- I've been involved with men like Victor who have had no real, abiding interest in the concept that women are equal human beings -- best to let these men go entirely...as in, no contact. And "lip-service" is not enough -- where I'm concerned, a man will have to "walk his talk," because talk alone is cheap. Three years ago, I let go of a man who refused to stop listening to, laughing at, and no doubt relating sexist jokes himself with other men at his place of employment. Oh, well! No big loss! And there have been several others I've relinquished, as well.)

Here are a few words from a man who has done his homework, who gives a damn, and who understands. He is a marriage counselor/sex therapist (and an author as well) named Marty Klein, who did an article for Utne Reader, Nov./Dec. 1988. Still very relevant, as the article is about rape. It is entitled, "Stopping Rape: Women, Read This to Men." In it, Klein expresses his grief, horror, and outrage at what is done to women by (certain) men throughout our country, every single day. He not only discusses rape, but women's everyday relationships with men, as well. I quote: "A woman who takes herself seriously won't allow a man to ignore what matters to her. This goes beyond the issue of rape; if you can't count on him to be passionately concerned about something just because it's important to you, how can you trust him about anything? How can there be true love or intimacy in a relationship that tolerates one person ignoring the vital concerns of another? In a mature relationship, the statement, 'Make this important to you because it's important to me,' comes not from pleading, but from power. If you don't have that, what are you doing in the relationship?" Further on, Klein asks, "A disconcerting challenge? Don't want to deal with the rejection, the nagging proof that he may not respond to something really important to you? Can you imagine the opposite -- you not responding to something HE feels strongly about? Of course not. I sympathize. BUT WE ONLY GET THE KIND OF RELATIONSHIP WE INSIST ON. TAKE A BOLD RISK, AND MAKE DEMANDS. SETTLING FOR SECOND-CLASS STATUS MAKES YOU PART OF THE PROBLEM." (Capital letters mine.)

Yes, despite the fact that the character Dolores seems in the end to "settle" for Victor, I give her a lot of credit for having the courage to speak her truth -- it is better to "whine" (as some people have termed it, in an effort to trivialize legitimate complaints about unequal male/female relationships as per Patriarchy) than to sit there like a cowardly ninny and eat sh-- with a smile on your face.

I've read some of the pathetic responses in these reviews, by women who should know better. But -- it's your loss, and no one else's, if you think so little of yourselves, as women. There are many female apologists for a social system that is totally destructive to women -- this truly is pathetic. (I wonder -- where is the self-respect of these women?)

I think women need to wake up -- we are part of the problem, because so many of us think so little of ourselves that we stupidly "eat it with a smile," whereas no self-respecting man would do likewise. We women too help keep this sick system going by our refusal to challenge injustice -- even when it makes fools of us in a personal way.

Women have gotten our sexist society's message from birth on -- in blatant and subtle ways -- that we are worthless because we are female. And, deep down, many women believe it, gauging by female responses to sexism. As I said -- no self-respecting MAN would put up with the second-class treatment that women have been conditioned to put up with. This is why disempowered women try to silence or shame those women who do speak out -- "I put up with it, and so should you."

Black people who "brown nose" are called "Uncle Toms." There should be a similar word for female sell-outs and sycophants.

No woman would have ANY rights or power, were it not for the courage, hard work, immensely dangerous risk-taking, and personal sacrifices of feminists past and present. Women, until fairly recently in our country's history, had few rights at all -- we couldn't vote or own property. A husband was allowed by law to beat and rape his wife. The list goes on and on.

Those women who in all ignorance slam feminists (i.e., those who have the courage to speak out, fight back, and thereby make a difference that benefits ALL women) are in actuality their own worst enemies, and caring men like Marty Klein are in full agreement with this (as Klein says, "Settling for second-class status makes YOU part of the problem).

These are the kind of men and women I want in my life -- people whose lives make a difference.
The Bleeding Heart download epub
Author: Marilyn French
ISBN: 0345008669
Category: Literature & Fiction
Language: English
Publisher: Ballantine Books (October 1988)